The 60-Second Introduction Every 9-to-5 Professional Should Know

Meeting someone new shouldn't feel like a job interview.

But for a lot of 9-to-5 professionals, the moment someone asks:

"So, what do you do?"

everything changes.

Suddenly, you feel like you need to explain your entire career in 60 seconds.

You give your job title. You explain the company you work for. Maybe you list a few responsibilities. Then the other person does the same thing.

And five minutes later, neither of you really knows much about the other person.

There's a better way.

Your introduction doesn't need to impress someone.

It needs to start a conversation.

During one of our Connection Hours inside Connection Creator Academy, we started talking about exactly this: what should you actually say when meeting someone for the first time?

The answer wasn't a perfectly memorized elevator pitch.

It was much simpler.

Give someone enough to understand who you are, then become interested in who they are.

Stop Treating Your Introduction Like a Resume

Most traditional networking advice teaches us to lead with what we do.

"I'm an accountant at..."

"I'm a teacher at..."

"I'm the sales manager for..."

"I'm a project manager specializing in..."

There's nothing necessarily wrong with that.

But here's the problem.

Your job title is only one part of who you are.

During our Connection Hours conversation, we talked about how people wear many different hats and have knowledge and experiences that go far beyond their current profession.

That's especially important for 9-to-5 professionals.

You might be an accountant who also understands real estate.

A teacher who creates content.

A salesperson who mentors younger professionals.

An HR professional building something on the side.

An insurance professional who hosts a podcast.

Your introduction should give people a small window into your world.

It shouldn't give them your entire resume.

The Goal Isn't to Impress Them

This is where people overcomplicate networking.

They think the goal of an introduction is to make the other person think:

"Wow. This person is really successful."

I don't think that's the goal at all.

I'd rather have someone think:

"I'd like to talk with this person again."

That's a completely different objective.

In our first article, How to Network When You Work a 9-to-5 (Without Feeling Fake), we talked about why networking becomes easier when you stop treating every conversation like an opportunity to sell yourself.

Your introduction should work the same way.

You don't need to prove anything.

You need to create enough curiosity to keep the conversation going.

A Simple 60-Second Introduction

During Connection Hours, we actually discussed what a first introduction could sound like.

I shared how I might introduce myself by briefly explaining who I am and what I'm involved with before turning the conversation toward the other person.

You can use a similar framework.

Think about four simple pieces:

Who are you?

What do you do?

What else are you interested in or building?

What question can you ask them?

That's it.

You don't need a complicated script.

For example:

"I'm Shawn. I'm a teacher, insurance professional and podcast host. I've also spent a lot of time building online and connecting people, and right now I'm really focused on helping 9-to-5 professionals build relationships that create more opportunities. What's new in your world?"

Notice what happened.

I gave enough information for someone to understand me.

But then I stopped talking.

That's the important part.

Give Them Something They Can Remember

Think about the introductions you've heard at networking events.

How many do you actually remember?

Probably not many.

That's because most sound exactly the same.

Someone's name.

Their company.

Their title.

Their industry.

Done.

Instead, give someone one thing they can remember about you.

Maybe it's something you're building.

Maybe it's a problem you enjoy solving.

Maybe it's a particular group of people you help.

Maybe it's an interesting side project.

Maybe it's something you're passionate about outside your job.

You don't need five memorable things.

You need one.

If someone meets 20 people at an event, you want them to be able to say afterward:

"Oh yeah. That's the person who..."

That's far more valuable than remembering your official job title.

Turn the Conversation Back to Them

Here's probably the most important part of the entire 60-second introduction.

Stop talking.

Your introduction isn't supposed to last 60 seconds because you need to fill every second.

You're simply using that time to open the conversation.

Then turn it toward them.

I like questions such as:

"What's new in your world?"

"What are you working on right now?"

"What are you trying to build?"

"What are you excited about?"

"What brought you here tonight?"

During Connection Hours, the conversation moved into the idea that before talking with someone, we should understand what we're looking for. If our goal is to build relationships, then the conversation needs to actually help us learn about the other person.

That's where the real connection begins.

Ask Questions That Go Beyond "What Do You Do?"

"What do you do?"

It's probably the most common networking question in the world.

And again, there's nothing wrong with it.

But don't stop there.

During our Connection Hours discussion, we started talking about the word "aware."

What are people aware of?

What do they believe?

What experiences have they had?

What do they know that you don't?

That led to an important realization.

A great conversation isn't just two people explaining what they do for work.

It's two people learning something about each other.

Sometimes someone shares an idea you hadn't considered.

Sometimes you learn something about their industry.

Sometimes you discover a common interest.

Sometimes you realize you know someone they should meet.

Sometimes they know someone you should meet.

The conversation itself becomes valuable.

Don't Let Your Introduction Turn Into a Pitch

This is where a good introduction can go bad quickly.

Someone asks what you do.

You explain it.

Then suddenly you're explaining your product.

Your service.

Your business opportunity.

Your side hustle.

Your community.

Your pricing.

Now the conversation isn't a conversation anymore.

It's a presentation.

During Connection Hours, we talked about how many people approach conversations trying to sell something instead of building a relationship first.

This connects directly with what we covered in Why One Conversation Can Change Your Career.

You don't know where a relationship might eventually lead.

Don't kill the potential relationship by trying to force the opportunity during the first five minutes.

Let the relationship develop.

Listen for Ways You Can Help

Once you stop worrying about what you're going to say next, something interesting happens.

You start listening.

And when you actually listen, you start hearing opportunities to help.

Maybe someone says they're looking for a podcast.

You know one.

Maybe they're looking for a real estate agent.

You know one.

Maybe they're struggling with something you've already experienced.

You can share what you learned.

Maybe they mention a problem that someone in your network could solve.

Make the introduction.

This is one of the reasons I believe conversations are so powerful.

Everybody knows something. Everybody knows somebody.

You don't know where those connections could eventually lead.

That's one of the biggest ideas we explored in Why One Conversation Can Change Your Career: one relationship can lead to another connection, which leads to another, creating opportunities you couldn't have predicted.

You Don't Need to Memorize a Script

I don't want you walking into your next networking event sounding like you've memorized something.

People can tell.

Instead, know the basic pieces of your story.

Who are you?

What do you do?

What are you working on or interested in?

What do you want someone to remember about you?

Then talk like a normal person.

Your introduction might change depending on who you're talking with.

That's okay.

You're not delivering a commercial.

You're starting a relationship.

Practice Your Introduction Before You Need It

Here's something you can do today.

Open the notes app on your phone and answer these four questions:

1. Who am I?

2. What do I do?

3. What's one thing I want people to remember about me?

4. What's one question I can ask to turn the conversation toward them?

Now say it out loud.

Not in your head.

Out loud.

If it sounds robotic, change it.

If it's two minutes long, shorten it.

If it sounds like you're trying to sell something, remove it.

If you wouldn't actually say those words while talking to someone over coffee, rewrite them.

Your goal isn't perfection.

Your goal is to become comfortable enough that when someone asks:

"What do you do?"

you don't freeze.

Your Introduction Should Create the Next Question

This might be the easiest way to judge whether your introduction works.

Does the other person want to know more?

If they respond with:

"That's interesting. How did you get into that?"

Great.

"Tell me more about that."

Great.

"How are you doing that while working full time?"

Great.

"What kind of people are you helping?"

Great.

Now you're having a conversation.

That's the goal.

Your 60-second introduction isn't supposed to close a deal.

It isn't supposed to get you hired.

It isn't supposed to convince someone to buy something.

It's supposed to open a door.

And as we've already talked about in Why One Conversation Can Change Your Career, you never know where that door could eventually lead.

Your Next Connection Starts With Hello

If you're a 9-to-5 professional who doesn't consider yourself a natural networker, don't overthink this.

You don't need to become the loudest person in the room.

You don't need some incredible elevator pitch.

You don't need hundreds of connections.

Learn how to introduce yourself.

Get curious about other people.

Ask better questions.

Listen.

Look for ways to help.

Follow up.

Then do it again.

Because the goal isn't to become better at pitching yourself.

The goal is to become better at connecting with people.

That's how relationships begin.

And relationships create opportunities.

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If you want to become more confident starting conversations and intentionally build a network around you, that's exactly what we're working on inside the Academy.

Action creates momentum.

Momentum creates relationships.

Relationships create opportunities.